Theology...

Recently I posted a comment to a fellow member of this club called Mothers of Angels... or the Multiple Miscarriage club...

it's hard to say "God allowed this..." if you look at in a negative context, but it's equally hard to agree with the individuals that say "It just wasn't meant to be." or "Maybe there was something wrong." And yes it's hard to see people that are drugged out of their head having children that are perfectly normal, or kids having kids when they aren't even wanting them... and yes I hate how unfair it is to see that, I hate the saying that everything happens for a reason... but honestly everything does happen for a reason, and no we'll never know that reason?? Maybe the reason Michelle Dugger suffered the miscarriage was because of how many people she can reach through the TV show... lord only knows how many individuals she'll reach and be able to be a comfort because of that... just like you, Ed, have displayed your pain through this blog and have offered comfort to individuals like myself?? I know that personally, there have been things I've suffered through and later been able to help someone else due to that suffering and was able to look back and know that if I hadn't been through the ordeal I suffered I wouldn't have had the knowledge. Does that make sense?? During the pain you ask those questions looking for an answer, but after you've been able to come to terms with it you can usually look back and see the answer you missed. Not always of course... but maybe those times we are just blind to what we are seeing??

Anyways, enough Theology today... it still hurts regardless, we just struggle through it...